The "ism" of Criticism -- part 1

For the next four weeks we are going to look at the topic of “criticism” and see how this “ism” challenges each of us in our daily walk as well as Christian testimony. I ask that all of us be open to what the Lord would want to say to us as we walk through this topic.

Mothers of Nations, our world today is full of “isms.”  I recently googled “isms” and found a list of 234 different “isms” listed! For our discussion here, let’s simply define an “ism” as a system, principle, ideology, or mindset. Some of these include socialism, fascism, globalism, nationalism, communism, materialism, feminism, humanism, legalism, idealism . . . and the list goes on and on.

But the “ism” I would like to focus on and talk about as it relates to us as believers and Christian leaders is one we all know about and are often challenged by and that “ism” is called CRITICISM.

Simply defined, criticism is described as:

• The expression of disapproval of someone or something based on perceived faults or mistakes.
• Judging someone else’s merits or faults.

This “ism” CRITICISM has a dual potential. It can be constructive or it can be very destructive.

Constructive criticism:

• Constructive criticism is a helpful way of giving feedback that provides specific, actionable suggestions.
• Rather than providing general advice, constructive criticism gives specific recommendations on how to make positive improvements. 
• Constructive criticism is clear, to the point and easy to put into action.

Destructive criticism:

• Destructive criticism is negative feedback that harms, undermines, or offends the recipient. 
• It may also impact the person’s reputation or belittle their achievements.
• Destructive criticism often comes in the form of a personal attack or emotional outburst.
• It can hurt our pride and have a negative effect on our self-esteem or confidence.
• It can lead to anger, revenge, or hate. Remember Saul? Destructive criticism led to murderous thoughts.

So we realize that this “ism” of CRITICISM has the potential to be either constructive or destructive. It all depends on the way it is presented and the end result that it is aimed to achieve.  J.C. Penney is quoted as saying this. “Praise is a wonderful pick me up. But it is only through criticism that we are to know what we have been doing wrong and truly correct our failures or shortcomings.”

Proverbs 28: 13 (NLT)

People who conceal their sins will not prosper, but if they confess and turn from them, they will receive mercy.

Next week we with look at some examples from the book of Nehemiah that offer us stunning examples about overcoming destructive criticism. In the meantime, let’s each thoughtfully consider our words and actions this week as it relates to our topic of the “ism” of criticism.

Blessings to each of you,

Dr. Sharon Predovich